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| Don’t ruin your life | Stop Chasing Girls |
In today’s article, we have exposed one very dirty and dangerous side of society — people who are always obsessed with nudity and constantly run behind girls. For such people, this article can be life-changing.
I have a friend who used to chase girls all day. I’ve observed him since school — he has always been hungry for lust. Whenever he sees a girl, he immediately starts flirting. I told him many times not to run behind girls, but he never listened.
Honestly, no girl ever got physical with him because everyone knew his intention was bad. They knew if they got involved with him today, he would go behind someone else tomorrow.
And there are so many such boys in society. I have seen the same behavior during college days too. It’s not only boys — even some girls do such inappropriate things.
Because of such boys, many girls feel insecure and scared. In colleges and society, we even see many incidents of harassment and rape caused by such people.
Today, I want to tell you clearly — stop living like animals. You must have seen how street dogs always run after female dogs, right?
Then what is the difference between those dogs and these shameless boys?
God gave us this precious human body, a higher form of life. Was it given only for lust and immoral behavior? Think about it seriously.
There are so many girls who feel scared to walk alone because of these filthy-minded people. This “girlfriend–boyfriend culture” is actually destroying today’s society.
Just like Laila-Majnu, many of you roam around wagging your tails blindly in the name of “love.” When will you understand the real meaning of love? When will your eyes open?
Accept it — you still have time. Because in old age, only regret will remain. When you ask yourself, “What did I achieve in life?” what answer will you give?
Think about this: the people who tried to insult Draupadi were beaten like dogs in the battlefield. And you are doing things even worse. What do you think God will do with you? Running behind every girl — you have destroyed humanity within yourself.
Your character should be so pure that if a girl walks alone, she should feel safe when she sees you.
Today’s depression, anxiety, and mental problems are increasing because of nudity everywhere. Children watch vulgar things on mobile, start masturbating, and slowly destroy themselves.
I get many comments on YouTube where people share how they wasted their life through excessive masturbation — they say how badly they are suffering today. Stop destroying yourself by watching vulgar content on mobile. You still have youth; your body and mind can recover now. But after the age of 50, recovery becomes extremely difficult.
And these points are not only for boys. I have also seen many girls who fall for such cheap and flashy boys — boys who party a lot, show cars and money, even if their character is dirty. Girls fall for their fake presentation, and later those boys show their real nature.
So I want to tell girls too — stop encouraging such boys. Don’t give importance to these cheap-minded men. Otherwise, the same man may become your husband and torture you later, maybe after drinking or taking drugs. And when that happens, you won’t even be able to go back to your parents because you already went against them for your love marriage. This is the harsh truth of life.
People comment and tell me, “Brother, I wasted 10 years doing masturbation, and now I'm in depression. Please save me.”
I simply tell them — improve yourself now. You still have time. If your youth goes away, then only regret will be left.
Consequences of Chasing Girls and Watching Nudity
The harmful effects of running behind girls and watching nudity are very serious and affect you on many levels — physical, mental, social, and spiritual. Below is a detailed explanation:
1. Mental Consequences
- Lack of concentration: Your mind keeps wandering toward women or sexual images again and again. Because of this, you cannot focus on studies, work, or spiritual practice.
- Depression and guilt: After watching pornography, a person often feels guilty and ashamed. This leads to depression, low confidence, and a decrease in self-respect.
- Distorted thinking: You start seeing women only as objects. This mindset destroys your relationships and spoils your behaviour in society.
2. Physical Consequences
- Loss of vital energy (semen loss): Frequent arousal leads to repeated ejaculation, which weakens the body and reduces overall strength.
- Lack of proper sleep: Sexual excitement affects your sleep cycle. You struggle to sleep on time, and you feel exhausted throughout the day.
- Negative impact on the nervous system: Watching pornography disrupts dopamine levels in the brain. This causes tiredness, restlessness, and low energy in the body.
3. Social Consequences
- Disrespectful attitude toward women: Instead of respecting women, a person starts seeing them as targets. This mentality increases incidents like harassment, assault, and even rape in society.
- Bad reputation in society: Constantly chasing girls or staring at them is socially shameful. It can damage your image, create conflicts, and may even lead to police cases.
- Relationship problems: You become emotionally distant from your partner and family members. This weakens trust, love, and understanding in relationships.
4. Spiritual Consequences
- Loss of spiritual energy: When you stay trapped in lust, your Brahmacharya (self-control) gets destroyed. This leads to a loss of inner strength, vitality, glow, and blocks your spiritual growth.
- Fall in spiritual level: Such habits slowly push a person toward animal-like behaviour. This can lead to spiritual downfall and may result in a lower form of birth in the next life, according to spiritual teachings.
Do good deeds, stay honest, follow Brahmacharya, consume good and positive content, work on improving your thoughts, and read good books. These habits are the only things that can bring you back to being a true human being. Otherwise, your downfall is guaranteed.
That’s all for today. We will meet again in the next article.
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Wishing you all good health.
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